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Sex advice. . .
from a pastor’s wife? Oh my.

Packed with sound advice and biblical insight, pastor’s wife and author Lucille Williams will leave you laughing out loud as you receive a fresh perspective on love and romance. Sure to tickle the funny bone, The Intimacy You Crave: Straight Talk about Sex and Pancakes is a hilarious, vulnerable, and highly entertaining read that is sure to put a smile on your face.
 
Whether you’re thriving or barely surviving in your relationship, The Intimacy You Crave will give you unprecedented insights and step-by-step challenges that will increase your desire and deepen your sexual intimacy so that it overflows into every area of your married life.
 
Why settle for reading about romance when you can live it out in your own life? Whether you crave fun and laughter or a deep connection with your husband, unlike anything you’ve experience before, Lucille Williams delivers it all with a side of laughter.
 
What readers are saying about Lucille Williams and The Intimacy You Crave:
 
“Hilarious and so wise!” Goodreads reviewer
 
“I was pleasantly surprised at the fresh & humorous content.” Goodreads reviewer

“I don’t think I have laughed, chuckled, and smiled so much at a book before. Laugh out loud… Hilarious. I was in need of a smile and a pick-me-up and this gave it in spades. For a really heart-warming, uplifting read with a smile. Inspiring and entertaining. A warm-hearted, feel-good and simply great read that I didn’t want to put down. Goodreads reviewer
 
“I especially loved the Fun Expressions Referring to Sex, and how the author gave the reader permission to add a false cover to the book or put a sticker over the word sex. I didn’t have to do either of those things because once I started reading, I couldn’t put this book down. I finished the entire book in one day!” Goodreads reviewer
 
Lucille Williams is an author, speaker, director, and coach who has been working with families for over 25 years. Straightforward, funny, engaging, genuine, and authentic, Lucille writes from her experiences as a pastor’s wife and deep devotion to her husband and children.

About the Author

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Lucille Williams, national speaker and author, has ministered to couples and families for over 25 years. As a pastor’s wife, Lucille dedicates her time to ministry, writing, mentoring, and providing resources on her blog at LuSays.com. Working alongside her husband who is the children’s pastor at Shepherd Church in Porter Ranch, California, Lucille found widespread success with her first book From Me to We.

In her pursuit to safeguard marriages, Lucille has appeared on Focus on the Family’s radio broadcasts and magazine as one of their top-rated programs for “BEST OF 2018.” She was also featured on KKLA’s the Frank Sontag Show and GOD TV. Even with her writing and speaking achievements, she will tell you her greatest pride and joy is her family—her highest calling and ministry.

Lucille resides in Los Angeles with her husband of over 37 years, spending the majority of their spare time with their grandkids.
 

Praise For…

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“Every part I’ve read of her manuscript I’ve thought, “Wow! That’s good. That’s bold. That’s so darn helpful.” I’m excited to see this get published, I’m excited to promote it, and I’m excited for my wife to read it and share it with her friends. Many of the painful marriages that we’re hearing about could be solved with Lucille’s wisdom and challenges.” —Doug Fields, Author of 50+ books, including 7 Ways To Be Her Hero: the one your wife has been waiting for; Getting Ready for Marriage; and The First Few Years of Marriage (with Jim Burns).

“This book will revolutionize your marriage and give your sex life a turbo boost!”
–Dr. Kevin Leman, author of Sheet Music and Have a Happy Family by Friday
 
 “Imagine having a conversation about sex over coffee with a wonderful mentor who is fun, funny, unashamedly Christian, and blunt! That’s what you will experience with this book. As a man reading, The Intimacy You Crave, I smiled often and thought ‘preach it sister’ even more often. Lu Williams is an amazing woman who makes the subject of sex, which can seem awkward, incredibly delightful and God-honoring. I loved the book and am so thankful that Lu has a deep passion to safeguard marriages.”
–Jim Burns, PhD, President, HomeWord, author of The Purity Code and Doing Life with Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out
 
“Bold, loving, and humble are words that come to mind when I think of Lucille Williams. Her life is a testimony to Christ in how she has loved her family, pursued friendships, and invested herself in others’ lives. If you want to deepen your understanding and commitment to your marriage, this book is a must-read! No matter how long you’ve been married, you’ll be compelled to reexamine your marriage relationship and spice it up!!!”
–Caleb Kaltenbach, Founder of The Messy Grace Group and author of Messy Grace and God of Tomorrow
 
“I so much appreciate Mike and Lucille Williams! They are both open, honest, and real. In The Intimacy You Crave, Lucille brings that same authentic and transparent attitude to a topic that frankly scares people, and she does so in a relevant way. This book is a must-read for every married couple no matter what age. Through entertaining and humorous stories, Lucille breaks down the awkwardness that can loom while discussing the topic of sex. I highly recommend this book!”
–Craig Jutila, President Empowering Living Inc., author of Faith and the Modern Family
 
“Now married for 12 years, I wish I had this book in the early years of marriage as I struggled to deprogram my mind from what the world said sex is, and reprogram it according to the Word of God. The enemy has done a fantastic job of distorting what God created…sex. Lu challenges wives not to be conformed to the world’s view of sex but to transform and renew our minds with the Word of God. Every wife and engaged woman needs this book in her library. Shackles will fall off as wives turn each page. This book is a breath of fresh air. It’s liberating, empowering, and funny! Thank you, Lu, for your boldness and for this anointed work.”
–Monique Robinson, Ordained Minister, author of Longing for Daddy
 
“Lu writes with wisdom and passion as she offers women no excuses to shrink away or disregard the sexual relationship with their spouse. She instead encourages and writes about both the mental and physical components of sex and offers biblical counsel in a real, humorous, and no-nonsense approach that will keep you laughing and engaged the whole way through.”
–Cindy Marston, Director of Women’s Encounters, Shepherd Church
 
“As a Christian, I have often struggled bringing up the topic of sex among other Christian friends. I love that Lucille reminds us that sex is ‘God’s idea’ and his gift for married couples! Sex should be discussed and encouraged the right way. Through this encouragement, marriages will be strengthened and preserved! This book is engaging, enlightening, and an all-around must-have!”
–Nakia Burrise, Producer, Writer and Actress on the TV series Atypical, Jane the Virgin, Hart of Dixie, and the original Yellow Power Ranger, nationally known motivational speaker
 
“This book is one all women should read—married or single. As a single woman, I feel as though I will be ahead of the game by getting a sneak peek of what to expect (or not expect). Lucille displays a combination of truth and humor to talk about a subject that everyone is thinking about, but no one dares to talk about. I have been privileged to witness her relationship with her husband on a week-to-week basis and have seen their healthy, fun, respectful marriage. Her lighthearted approach makes you feel like you are at a local coffee shop, while the content leaves you as though you just went through years of counseling. She is honest; she is relatable; she is real.”
–Amanda Boddeker, Admissions Counselor at Dallas Theological Seminary
 
 
“The topic of sex within marriage carries with it such a secrecy and hush-hush attitude within much of the church, even today. And yet, it’s so widely exploited in media and so important in relationships. It is a topic that can be grossly misunderstood. Lucille tackles this topic in true ‘Lucille-style.’ She’s open, honest, transparent, and definitely does not beat around the bush. Wives will benefit from this no-nonsense, life applicable book. Lucille’s deep love for her husband and family is reflected in this book. It’s something she lives out daily and is evident in her life. Wives can benefit from her experience and her transparency. If you’re looking for a book that tells it like it is, this book is for you!”
–Kathie Pisano, Pastor’s Wife, Real Life Church
 
 
“In a market that is filled with books that are sooo serious and formal, Lu sweeps in like that quirky, fun, irreverent big sister who can say anything and makes you blush. . .but who you might actually listen to.”
–Shaunti Feldhahn, best-selling author of For Women Only